I just sent Patrick a note about this exact issue. I ABSOLUTELY AGREE that I have no one to blame but myself. The warning signs were all there.
However, Patrick occupies a leadership position on this corner of the interwebs, and has been championing the use of crypto for untrusted transactions, which is not its intended purpose. Some among us apparently have chosen to take the leap of faith (trust?) with Patrick, just as I and others did with Elit3.
Q2 2017 STH Lab Cleaning
Q1 2017 STH Lab Cleaning
(Note the blue bold text about accepting Monero).
Is it the job of the admins to hold my hand, or pay me back if I do something stupid? NO.
Do the admins establish the culture or "set the tone" of this motley gang of eggheads? ABSOLUTELY.
And the culture of which we are all a part of, has made us vulnerable.