Thank you for the awesome information and links to products. I don't have a soldering iron yet and I am not sure it would go well with my wifeI run two machines on a single 12V adapter. You need:
https://www.aliexpress.com/item/1005002011584072.html - a power splitter terminal box
https://www.aliexpress.com/item/33038333356.html - here you get the DC power adapters in two colors. Makes it easier to distinguish between 2.1 and 2.5mm inner diamater, and these adapters are easier to handle (no soldering required) and look more sturdy than the standard adapters.
Wires. I bought 16 agw silicon cable for this purpose.
Lat but not least: https://www.aliexpress.com/item/1005005123816284.html - a fast charge pd module to force 12V output on the pd charger
Recommended: https://www.aliexpress.com/item/1005006245123030.html - a simple method to isolate cables. It also did a great job in fixing my keyboard hand rest where my cat punched some holes into it-
The rest is some simple soldering on the pd module.
Btw.: The efficiency of such a pd charger is identical to a good classic 12V power supply, so you also could buy e.g. a Meanwell 12V adapter with 60W. Stay away from the USB 1:4 Y-adapter cables. These cables have some built in electronics to server different voltages on each wire and normally can't handle high loads. I had to move my switch to a dedicated USB adapter due to this, resulting in blackouts of the switch under load.
I was originally thinking about getting rid of classic power adapters and use one gan charger like satechi 165 W, some pd cables and fixed voltage adapters (or even better, pd trigger cable with correct jack) to power switch, router and ap (old laptop max power is probably too high). Except the price of Satechi and power drop outs during renegotiation (I am not sure the "fast power switching" would solve this and that the Ali triggers would support it) do you see any other cons?