13700K and Kingston KSM48E40BD8KM-32HM in an Asus WS W680 I get 'totalwidth' 80bit
13700K and Kingston KSM48E40BD8KM-32HM in a Supermicro X13SAE I get 'totalwidth' 72bit
This is the screenshot from the X13SAE. In the other thread is a screenshot from the Asus board.
The Asus Board is good but you should have a normal DDR5-6000 memory at hand.
If you configure it in the wrong direction the easiest way to get it back to life is to pull out the ECC RAM and pull in the normal RAM and boot into BIOS and change some parameters.
I can't remember a Board where I had that much trouble to get things fixed.
And start with the BIOS version 2305 from the beginning - the earlier BIOS is even more P.I.T.A.