Still looks like the aforementioned
https://4donline.ihs.com/images/Vip...3-1.pdf?hkey=52A5661711E402568146F3353EA87419 is the part. (DZ11A51-H8R1-4F)
Even the pin 11 marking on the PCB matches up with the pin 11 mark on the connector. On top of that, if you look closely at the blue inner part of the VGA connector you can see the embossed "FOXCONN" letters, identical to the mechanical drawing in the PDF.
As mentioned before, soldering them in isn't all that hard, but making a clean removal is difficult without hot air and/or a preheater because of the thermal mass the multilayer PCB has. That said, it's just a connector, and it has been installed and removed before so it's not exactly the first time humanity had to deal with this ;-)
If you need to remove a component and you don't need if afterwards: just cut it up! Cut/separate all the pins if you can, much easier to save the PCB that way. Inversely, if you have a dead PCB and you want to 'save' a component: cut out the part of the PCB the component is on, that significantly reduces the thermal mass and makes it much easier to safely desolder. Things like chip quick can help a lot there too, but preheating is just as safe/easy.