I agree that we can discuss this forever, but it's a valid discussion as it does affect us in the community. But you are right on the balance. I rarely post deals I find any more. And I can't even find storage deals anymore after someone I shared some sources with spilled it on discourse in a scalper group who profits on this all day long now. It's the biggest turnoff when someone has built a business around someone else's goodwill. I know how to build a business and I could have done the same if that was my intent. So now what I know is shared with very limited people.On the other hand, you can discuss this down the rabbit hole and it will always come down to each of the characters in this race for good 'cheap' stuff. Lets be honest, who comes first gets it first. If there were 1000x nvme's on offer and everyone of us would have gotten his share, there were no discussion. It will balance itself. People won't report. Others will. If there's less reported, the spread kiddies will also have less. Private 'areas' will be build instead. Less community, more fragmentation, more brains to play with
... if someone is bragging to have bought 50 of these, well .... you know where this is leading.
Community is generally about homogeneity--when you start having different groups in a community that are at opposite poles, the community will split or fraction in ways, which is not necessarily a bad thing if each of the remaining communities gets what they want. It's been the story behind big forum splits like flyertalk and others over the decades. Luckily, we're just discussing an aspect of the forum here, but there's already deals forums like slickdeals where a lot of the same deals like the serverparts drive deals are posted.
Bottom line is the 'reseller problem' will get solved by deals posters (like me) just not posting, which helps the community but hurts the forum in the end--how ironic.