Are you actually sure about that ? And where do you see it can Bifurcated ?
Don't misunderstand me, or interpret the answer as arrogant, but yes, I am sure. Edit: Scratch that. I just realized, that I wrote port 3 (as I counted from the top), while in the Fujitsu documentation this is actually port "2". So, I am talking about the 1x4 port.
(About said 1x4 port):
It is a PCH port, which can be bifurcated through low-level settings in the Intel Flash Descriptor (first 4K of SPI storage space in the Boot SPI Flash). Also the Intel corresponding Intel "fitc" tool lets you modify it via a GUI.
You can then reconfigure the port to no longer be a 1x4 port, but rather a 2x2 (or maybe even 4x1; don't remember) port. And for a dual function Optane, like the H10 or H20, you will need a split port with 2x2.
As I said, as proof I had the mentioned Intel Optane running in there, with both of its functions active and working.
Edit: The two 1x8 ports are actually the already bifurcated PEG-slot. So, the 1x 16 PEG lanes, split into 2x8. Theoretically, one of those ports (which one, depends on the question of enabling lane reversal or not) could be further split into 2x4, as the PEG supports 1x8 and 2x4. This would need to be done via CPU Straps. See here:
S/W strap for x16 or x8/x8 on PEG
Usually the Color is an Indicator and the first 3 PCIe Slots (Slot 4, Slot 3 and Slot 2) are Blue, while the latter one (Slot 1) is Black.
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Sorry, but do you really think, that differentiation by color coding is a safe way of telling the connection type, when you can actually analyze the function in an OS or the EFI-shell? A simple "lspci -t" in Linux will tell you where a device connection actually goes, port-wise. Very helpful stuff.
I'm NOT sure if I ever tested to put the Mellanox ConnectX-4 LX in Slot3, but USUALLY ASPM works if it's a PCH/DMI/Chipset connected Slot, whereas USUALLY ASPM does NOT work if it's a direct CPU-connected Slot.
I'm afraid that PCIe Slot3 is also directly CPU Connected and NOT PCH/DMI/Chipset Connected

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"Usually" seems to be one of your favorite words. I would say that "usually" no recent Connect-X card with a recent firmware version has enabled ASPM, unless you somehow force it.
If you are looking for ASPM and 10G at the same time, then Intel X710 is a nice choice.
Has anyone tried a dGPU? Or tried methods of forcing L1 aspm? I was thinking of getting one of these and using like an intel arc for transcoding since you can't use a CPU with an iGPU but the notes about not having an L1 ASPM concerns me that the gpu would not be able to fully idle with this motherboard when not in use?
There is no real reason, why a dGPU should not work. It's just that, due to the onboard BMC, integrated CPU graphics was fully disabled.