Ok well it took FOREVER but Supermicro has blessed my designs. They also provided the additional SKU's needed for the I/O Shields and appropriate Risers and Cables. I'm still determining if I want to go with a large 16 core system or split it into two 8 cores but below are the designs for the three servers. Cost is ultimately the same going with two systems vs one large one at this time.
System 1 - VM SAN (using existing drives for storage, demands will be fine for now, will upgrade to new later when needed)
OS FreeBSD Native Install
Case Supermicro SC113MFAC2-605CB
Rails MCP-290-00056-0N Short Depth Rails
Motherboard Supermicro X10SDV-2C-TP4F
Riser RSC-RR1U-E8
I/O Shield MCP-260-00099-0N
Memory 2x Supermicro 16GB MEM-DR416L-HL02-ER21
RAID Controller LSI 9361-8i SAS3 Raid Controller
Backplane Cables 2x CBL-SAST-0532
OS Drive 2x Seagate ST1000NX0323 2.5" 1TB SAS3
Drives 6x 1TB Seagate ST91000640SS SAS2 2.5" (4x RAID10 for VM Storage (1.8TB Usable), 2 HSP)
System 2 - ESX Node (with Local VM Storage for Core VMs)
OS ESX 6
Case Supermicro SC113MFAC2-605CB
Rails MCP-290-00056-0N Short Depth Rails
Motherboard Supermicro X10SDV-7TP8F
Riser RSC-RR1U-E8
I/O Shield MCP-260-00099-0N
Memory 4x Supermicro 32GB MEM-DR432L-HL01-ER21
RAID Controller LSI 9361-8i SAS3 Raid Controller
Backplane Cables 2x CBL-SAST-0532
OS Drive Sandisk 16GB USB Flash
Surveillance Live Intel S3710 400GB SSDSC2BA400G4
Surveillance Archive 4x Seagate ST2000NX0243 2.5" 2TB SATA (Raid5)
Local VM Storage 2x Intel S3710 800GB SSDSC2BA800G4 SATA - MIRROR
System 3 - ESX Node (FUTURE EXPANSION)
OS ESX 6
Case Supermicro SC113MFAC2-605CB
Rails MCP-290-00056-0N Short Depth Rails
Motherboard Supermicro X10SDV-7TP4F
Riser RSC-RR1U-E8
I/O Shield MCP-260-00099-0N
Memory 2x Supermicro 32GB MEM-DR432L-HL01-ER21
Backplane Cables 2x CBL-SAST-0631
OS Drive Sandisk 16GB USB Flash