@Sleyk - The reason is okay. I probably should spend less time (and money) and learning IT and more with the family. They certainly get their time though so they definitely don't go without. They are first, they know it and I make sure my employer knows it. No job is worth selling your soul. Sometimes there are moments you need to eat it just until you find something else. In the long run it's just a job. Relationships and moments are what is left behind.