I ended up buying the i7-1265u from one of the Topton stores in ali, adding 8gb ram, 128gb m2, the fan and a 2nd sata cable.
They took almost a week to send it, but then DHL was pretty fast.
It came with 1x8gb 3200mhz ram stick of a Chinese brand, and a 128gb Fanxiang S501 m2 drive, nothing...