As far as I can tell, your RAM should be compatible, Crucial also claims that with their "Will it work" function on their website, but of course the only sticks that are supported are the ones on "Supermicros Tested memory list".
I would do the usual RAM incompatibility/stability checks, which for me are (in no particular order):
- Run
memtest86+, if it detects any errors try to isolate the stick or slot that is at fault.
- Reseat all sticks and remove dust from sticks/memory slot with canned air etc.
- Update BIOS (newer BIOS could contain memory compatiblity and stability fixes)
- Perform overheating trouble shooting, heat could be affecting the memory sticks directly or the CPU.
- Use a different powersupply, if the PSU you are using is bad (all PSUs can be affected) you can get all kinds of weird problems.
- Reseat CPU (in the E3v2 series the memory controller is located in the CPU, a bad connection to the MB could cause connection problems to memory sticks).
I may be forgetting something, but atleast if you do these things you will be occupied for a while
EDIT: A couple of things i forgot:
- Remove any hardware that is not absolutely essential for booting system (no PCIe cards, only boot disk, etc.)
- Try to run your system with a clean OS (Centos 7 or whatever might fit the bill), you haven't specified exactly how you come to the conclusion that it is a memory problem, but in theory software problems could disguise themselves as hardware problems. It would probably be beneficial if the OS is different than the one you are using now.