Like Supermicro will list a HMT351R7BFR8C-PB, but the part that you'll find some of on eBay is the HMT351R7CFR8C-PB. According to Hynix, its just a newer revision of the memory, but I don't know if it will work since it's not on the list.
This one is easy because the RAM manufacturer is also making the DIMMs -- they usually have full datasheets for those and since they self-supply, they won't change the configuration based on cheapest-supplier-of-the-week.
Compare the basic info for
HMT351R7BFR8C-PB vs
HMT351R7CFR8C-PB. Scroll to the end and you'll notice that the C revision tightens up timings, allowing for a jump at the high-end to PC3-14900 from PC3-12800.
Next, for the internal configuration, you'll need to open up the respective datasheet PDFs linked on those pages. The information you need is in the Ordering Information section, namely
Density, Organization, Composition and
number of ranks. A quick side-by-side glance shows that the
only thing the newer revision changes is the model number of the component chips, going from *BFR/*BMR to *CFR/*CMR.
This let's you conclude that the newer revision at the same or higher speed-grade will be 100% compatible with systems whose HCL contained the older revision.