OK Well this gets more and more interesting.
Heres a link to the Chipset Compare from Intel's website.
http://ark.intel.com/Compare.aspx?ids=36783,52812,52807,52810,36784,52805,52804,52803,36785
Heres a link t othe CPU Compare from Intel's Website
http://ark.intel.com/Compare.aspx?ids=47933,37147,37150,41316,52214,52213,52271
As you can see only the "Server/Workstation(Q67 & X58)" chipsets support VT-d.
Also VT-d seems to be enabled/disabled on Lynnfield/Sandy Bridge CPUs depending on the SKU
VT-d is not applicable for Bloomfield/Gulftown CPUs
This is really interesting though because Intel has marketed non-K SB chips as supporting VT-d (And i cannot imagine them encouraging people to use "consumer CPUs" in Server/Workstation boards opposed to Xeons)
Also the Mobo Manufacturers have marketed VT-d support in their documentation on P67/H67 boards where clearly the chipset does not support VT-d.
Summary of what we know:
VT-d is function of the chipset
VT-d is also a fucntion?(enabled/disabled) on Lynnfield/Sandy Bridge CPUs
VT-d is not applicable for Bloomfield/Gulftown CPUs