I am also looking for ECC memory. There are some cost-effective 2400MHz and 3200MHz options on Amazon (OWC and A-Tech brands). Do you have experience with these? Can you tell us which ECC memory did not work, so we know to avoid it?
I would avoid budget off-brands like A-tech, OWC, Nemix, or mem-store. I tried saving a few bucks but it ended up costing me more since I'm now stuck with them and in the end still bought ones that are known to work. These "compatible" brands either won't POST at all, or if they do, ECC might not be working correctly. I've only tried 64gb ECC, no experience with other capacity so you might have better experience with smaller modules. Refer to this post by
@ZPrime that had similar experience:
Edit regarding RAM size and CAS latency:
3200MHz modules are typically CL22. They can operate at a lower 2400MHz frequency, but the CAS latency remains 22. So native 2400MHz modules with their CL17 are faster. I think the answer is no, but will ask anyway: Do 2400MHz ECC modules get to 32GB in size? Basically, I'm looking for
this, only 64GB (2x32GB).
Not sure how if same applies for today's RAM, but back in the DDR3 days, I remember if you ran a lower speed than what's rated for, you can also tighten the timing to compensate. So if you bought 3200mhz and downclock it to 2400mhz, you might be able to run a lower CL, tRCD, tRP, and tRAS. But spending days to tweak and testing for stability to find optimal clock/timing isn't worth the hassle to me.
There are discontinued 32gb modules that are 2400mhz ECC ddr4 SODIMM from SK Hynix, Samsung, and Micron. But they're discontinued and you won't be able to find them. I've tried

. So I settled for 3200mhz ECC.