So all of my parts came in and I got it all put together, I went with the following:
GIGABYTE GA-7PESH2
2x E5-2670 from DDS
8x8 ddr Ecc
2x CM 212 Evo's - Already had
Rosewill RSV-L4412 - Already had
I am currently letting it run a few passes in memtest86. The only problem I am having is related to the on-board dual Intel x540. That little copper heatsink on the motherboard is freaking HOT. It measured 44C with a ir probe with nothing even attached to the ports. Looking at the specs, the X540at2 has a TDP of 12.5w an a max temp of 55c, which seems excessive as I have an i-350 quad that uses 3.4w. I disabled them in the bios and after an hour the heatsink is still reading 39C. Due to the odd size and placement of the heatsink I don't think I could replace it. I am sure the nic is going to overheat as soon as I start transferring files. I could point a high performance 120mm fan at it and hope for the best but that just seems less than ideal. I am not sure what the best course of action is here.