Time to expand and splash a "little cash", so here is the plan, anything in red text is in place.

So the plan is ..
Proxmox box to talk to the servers on the normal 192.x.x.x network
Servers to talk to each other on a 10.x.x.x network.
Servers also talk to AP on 192.168.x.x. network, as 1G is enough to stream media to the house.
Am I making life hard for myself, and should just get from ebay and if so what do you recommend, servers only have PCIe v3 8x slots, Prozmox has mixture of PCIe v4 8x/16x.
SFP+ 8+ port unmanaged switch
4x2 port Mellanox cards, 2 for Proxmox and one each for server
6 cables to team to switch between Proxmox and servers and two cables with an RJ45s to team back to unmanaged switch
Even a cheap managed switch to replace everything, supporting 2.5/10G RJ45 and SFP+?
Then drop the 1G links to AP
Hope I haven't confused you.

So the plan is ..
Proxmox box to talk to the servers on the normal 192.x.x.x network
Servers to talk to each other on a 10.x.x.x network.
Servers also talk to AP on 192.168.x.x. network, as 1G is enough to stream media to the house.
Am I making life hard for myself, and should just get from ebay and if so what do you recommend, servers only have PCIe v3 8x slots, Prozmox has mixture of PCIe v4 8x/16x.
SFP+ 8+ port unmanaged switch
4x2 port Mellanox cards, 2 for Proxmox and one each for server
6 cables to team to switch between Proxmox and servers and two cables with an RJ45s to team back to unmanaged switch
Even a cheap managed switch to replace everything, supporting 2.5/10G RJ45 and SFP+?
Then drop the 1G links to AP
Hope I haven't confused you.
