I can speed test anything and max out, enable BBR in debian and 90% of speed tests I get my 3GBps (Dual 3Gbps uplinks) and work has a dedicated 10Gbit installed but I dont push my personal stuff over that
I was one of those weird long ago earlier adopters of replacing ISP gear with my own, were talking back when we soldered NICs to make FTTH work, so my test cases are specific to "me" and people can disagree, example my old nics that I had to solder, sure i could achieve 3.2/3.3GBps throughput, but then test specific traffic (I like NZBGet, pretty much maxes everything out no matter what) but then try things like steam (my two main stations are a 9950x3d and a intel 285k, intel in this case loses and the AMD box for steam as an example pushes almost to the limit, I have 20k+ games so I don't like waiting more than a moment or two for them to download).
Also, test things like steam downloads, I know its stupid but also max our plex or live streams and see how far you get
And does it seem like a waste, again perceptions and realities, one of my users use to buy kaleidescape devices for their homes, we're not talking normal people money, were talking he spend "god like money on it" and quite frankly it was ok, but expensive and they didnt have good upgrade options and his Blu Ray library exceeded like 9000 disks, so eventually he couldnt keep his collections "life on demand" I offered plex, he was skeptical, built a demo in my house, he's loved it ever since (actually pays me to run a plex server at 100k a year for doing it), to which it was his idea to share to get more content ideas (luckily he paid for the install of a pair of generators and a huge UPS system lol).
Again, perceptions and realities, everyone's is different

and considering his projects for his in house imax movie theaters cost more than Ill make in my life, he found it worth it to himself (example story)
OH so why use ES cpus, I use to just call up dell for servers and lease them, usually I'd get some good deals (my older R940XAs with 32x 15TB SSDs, from dell direct, I paid like 60k each), now I cant even get them to sell me something worthy for under 100-150k, so next best thing

the leases alone don't make it worth the effort, before, the deals were good. Also noticed the dell setups have a lot of bus latency compared to a simple home build, might just be a me observation though.