I got it! I got the GTX780 working!
Forgive the mess and the poor quality pictures.
The following information and pictures are from right now as I type this.
Long story short: I am not 100% sure what the culprit is, but I believe it is BIOS related.
I updated to the newest BIOS from Dells website, and when the computer fired up, it went through the "Configuring Memory...Done" screen as usual. Then it went to the BIOS splash screen, then to the windows loading screen. For a brief second while the windows loading screen was up, the screen flashed black, then came back on. When the screen came back on, the GTX780 to my TV over HDMI and the VGA port to my computer monitor were both working. I have sound via the HDMI too, which was a big concern since I do not believe the Dell board has on board sound.
Here is the link to the latest drivers from Dell.
Support for PowerEdge C8000 | Dell US
And this is the specific BIOS that I used. It is quite simple as an .exe file. You just follow the on screen instructions.
I chose this one because it was for 64 bit and was a .exe file that would install bios for me.
I was on BIOS version 1.1.19. The New version is 2.7.1
Here are some pictures from the install:
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(continue reading below for more information leading up to the BIOS update, which were figured out last night. Everything above this line is current, and is working. Everything below is in the past that I am updating for reference to hopefully help.)
Now, short story long, I was able to get the graphics card working on the old version of BIOS.
Last night, I was playing with the BIOS settings trying to get the video card to work. In a previous post, I mentioned that the error in device manager for the graphics card went from code 43 to code 12 by installing the old driver from the ASUS website (instead of the newest driver from Nvidia's website). As a note, any time you are uninstalling and reinstalling new video card drivers, I highly recommend DDU - Display Driver Uninstaller. Any time I changed the driver, I used DDU first to uninstall the previously installed display driver.
Here is a link to DDU.
Display Driver Uninstaller Download version 17.0.5.3
Per Microsoft, here are the device manager errors I mentioned:
Code 43
Windows has stopped this device because it has reported problems. (Code 43)
One of the drivers controlling the device notified the operating system that the device failed in some manner.
Code 12
This device cannot find enough free resources that it can use. If you want to use this device, you will need to disable one of the other devices on this system. (Code 12)
This error can occur if two devices that are installed on your computer have been assigned the same I/O ports, the same interrupt, or the same Direct Memory Access channel (either by the BIOS, the operating system, or both). This error message can also appear if the BIOS did not allocate enough resources to the device.
With error code 12, I started poking around in BIOS, changing settings to try and get the card working. I had not changed any of the settings in the Advanced > PCI Configuration area. So I went in there and started reading the notes in the BIOS.
Under Advanced > PCI Slot Configuration > Edge Slot, I changed the settings from 'Enabled' to 'Enabled without OPROM'.
Now, notice that this is for the 'Edge Slot'. This is the #4 PCI connector at the very back of the board that requires the special riser cable (gpgpu) that I bought off ebay (specific to the Dell c8220x as far as I can tell). With that being said, I am pretty sure this BIOS setting is ONLY for that rear Edge Slot. And probably wont effect the front two PCI slots.
Here is a link to the post that talks about these connectors/cables.
Dell PowerEdge C8220 Build and Questions
When I saved the settings and exited BIOS, the computer restarted and went to the 'Configuring Memory...Done' screen, then the BIOS splash screen, then to the windows loading screen. While the windows loading screen was up, the screen flashed black and my TV went from "no signal" to displaying video output! I was very excited to see this. The device manager showed the device was working properly.
After getting this far, I decided to go back and play in BIOS to change other settings. Since others had said they needed to turn off the on board video controller in BIOS to get their graphics cards working, I decided to change the setting for 'Video Enumeration' from 'Onboard' to 'Add-in'.
Since the description reads 'the first add-in video controller is used for boot time messages' I figured this may use the graphics card for the 'Configuring Memory...Done' screen, as well as the BIOS screen.
IT DID NOT WORK. When I saved and exited BIOS, the computer rebooted and I got a black screen on my VGA computer monitor which turned into 'check video cable.' I shut the board down with the power button and then rebooted. The computer monitor never came back on. I waited and waited hoping the TV would turn on once I got into windows... No luck.
So.... I had to reset BIOS with the NVRAM jumper in order to get the onboard display to work. When I did this, I tried to go back and setup all the BIOS settings for PCI Configuration the same, but it was no use. The TV wouldn't come back on.
So, that is what lead me to the BIOS update. Which I do believe fixed the issue.
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(summary)
For those of you having issues getting your graphics card working, I would say try to look at your errors in device manager (if using windows)
If you are getting error code 43, try installing an older version of the driver. If you can, try to go to the card manufactures website and install their driver. For example, the ASUS driver that I have currently that is working is version 353.62. The newest driver that is on the Nvidia website is 378.66.
If you are getting code 12, try to update BIOS. I did some googling and think I may have found why updating BIOS makes sense. Code 12 refers to two different devices sharing the same resource. Well, through device manager, you can see the memory and interrupt addresses that are assigned to the device. Unfortunately I do not have pictures of these addresses before and after the BIOS update, but they do appear to have changed. I believe that updating BIOS may have remapped the addresses assigned to the devices. I am not 100% sure if it works this way, so that theory could be wrong.
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(questions)
For those of you that got your video cards working, what version of BIOS are you running?
What changes did you have to make?
Was anyone else able to leave the onboard graphics 'Enabled' and still get their video card to work?
For those of you with working video cards, do you see the 'Configuring Memory...Done' and BIOS splash screen?
It seems to me like I have to get to windows for the video card to actually start working.