All right, since you asked.
If we are talking about copper: I have all 3, and I like Intel's most (X550). It is completely trouble-free, easy PnP under Linux and ESXi, Chelsio t520-bt was not problem free for me under ESXi, I was not able to negotiate 10 Gbe links, no amount of troubleshooting made any difference. When inserted into a Linux box, I have problems from time to time negotiating 10 Gbe links or just links in general (two different adapters), sometimes I have to power off the server, pull the power cable and reboot. But, when it is UP, it just works - with jumbo frames and at max throughput.
Recently I bought a sub-$100 10 Gbe Network card - by Asus IIRC, but it is irrelevant. What is important is that it is based on a Marvell Aquantia AQN-107. The card performs flawlessly under Linux and under ESXi with maximum throughput, jumbo frames at minimum temps and minimum CPU usage. I liked it so much that I bought a few of those cards in a Thunderbolt guise.
So there. That's my story and I am sticking to it!