I also think until prices for qsfp28 cabling and switches dont come down there are not many people willing to go for home usage. Even somehow affordable hca/nic doesn't mean the rest of the fabric will be in the same range.
See the dirt cheap cx3, but good luck with finding fdr capable cables and ethernet switches. (i'm going through this atm, upgrading from QDR infiniband and 10gbe sfp+ to a single fdr fabric and spent way more time and money than i ever imagined it would take)
Also, there is for sure the question if there is anything that really requires single or multiple EDR (or even faster) links and also how urgent the need to do so is. Massive amount of nvme or sas3 ssd's maybe. But for this getting a dual port cx3 would (letting pcie 3 Limits out) give 80-112 GBit, depending on linkspeed, too - for a much lower total.
A lot of the currently used QDR/FDR Equipment came from OEM like Dell, hp, EMC, IBM that was obviously upgraded to EDR. So my bet is that there will be another 3-4 years until this will be upgraded and give interesting options for home use.