For 10Gb, you need SFP+, not SFP.
Mikrotik CRS305-1G-4S+IN with Mikrotik S+RJ10. Strap an 80mm or 120mm fan to the top of the switch to prevent overheating.
QNAP QSW-M804-4C
Mikrotik CRS312-4C+8XG-RM
Ruckus ICX7150-C10ZP. The -C10ZP version has 10GbaseT but it's expensive.